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How to Continue Non-Stop Dating Conversation




    Kickass Dating Conversation






    Often the most daunting element about meeting new people is the probability of having to start a conversation as opposed to simply being the listener. This can be quite a challenge for those who are not really good conversationalists. It would be in the best interest for the individual to fine tune the skill of communication with a repertoire of handy topics for conversations. Get all the info you need here.



    Kickass Dating Conversation

    Your ultimate guide to lure your partner & have a great dating experience


    Chapter 1:

    Great Ways To Start A Conversation



    There are several different types of scenarios that require equally different conversation topics. There are conversations that require the introduction style to start a connection and then there are conversations that require the individual to ask questions in order to get to know the other party better.



    Getting Started


    Then there are also conversation starters that would start with a “what if” question to get the other party committed to commenting, and therefore providing the ideal topic for further discussion. These styles often provide a adequate amount of information that allow all involved to carry the conversation for a longer period of time. 


    Other conversation starters may include icebreakers such as talking about a pet, a hobby, an interesting venture, a new experience, travel, kids, retirement, politics and a whole array to other interesting topics. Some conversation starter in a more business like environment would have to be designed around more business related topics. Having the relevant information within the knowledge base will allow the individual to smoothly and effectively contribute to the ongoing conversation.


    Being able to contribute in a seemingly knowledgeable way in an ongoing conversation without appearing authoritative or overbearing will definitely ensure those around will feel comfortable and positively drawn to the individual. Having a friendly manner and taking care not to dominate but to try an include everyone in the conversation will certainly show the individual in a good light.



    Chapter 2:

    First Date Conversations That Get You Second Dates




    First date conversations are very important as most impressions are formed at this time. These impressions play a major role in dictating the possibility of a follow up date. Therefore in the quest to make sure a second date is definite instead of probable, the individual would have to be a good conversationalist or at the very least, be able to come up with interesting topics to discuss.




    Getting Another Date


    There are some key elements to note when trying to design good conversation for the first date and these would include practicing, having great questions and knowing the end goal intended for the date. With all this clearly formatted in the individual’s mind, getting the date of to a good start would not be impossible.


    The practice section would include the individual having to come up with great questions that are suitable for the occasion or date and also have interesting corresponding answers for the questions put forth in order to keep the conversation going back and forth. Practicing with friends and family will help the individual get better at ensuring the smoothness and flow of the conversation is kept throughout the topic being discussed.


    Then the next stage to perfect would require the clear understating of the goal of the date, which is to secure a second date easily. In order to so, the individual would have to create an enjoyable experience for the other party that would help make the decision for a second date an easy one. Ensuring a good time is the priority as people who enjoy themselves on first dates are more likely to be interested in a second one.There is also the issue of appearing confident when carrying out the conversation. The confidence levels portrayed will give the other party a chance to be impressed with the individual and thus be keen to go on a second date.



    Chapter 3:

    Choosing The Best Date Conversation Topics




    There are a lot of guidelines available for people to explore when trying to come up with suitable conversations when on dates. These conversations will have a very important part to play, as the success of the date would very much depends on both parties interacting well and enjoying themselves.


    The following are some of the guidelines that should be considered if the individual in keen on ensuring the date is a success and both parties enjoyed themselves:




    What Topics


    Picking a topic that would garner good rapport would be a good place to start. A topic that allows both parties to connect and relate to each other would definitely be a winner. When there is an evident connection, the elements of trust and friendship can be started.

    Choosing a topic that is unique, but that the individual is an authority on will help to impress the date enough to get the other party asking questions and thus helping to keep the conversation going. However caution should be exercise here, to ensure the topic is interesting to the other party too, otherwise boredom is more likely to set in. it will also help to create a little mystery and excitement for the evening.

    Other good topics would ideally have to include a way to entice the other party to give out information that can then become another avenue for discussion. This is usually a good ploy as it creates the element of being impressed that the other party is caring enough to be interested in the information shared. It also provides the ideal platform for the other party to be emotionally committed to the conversation content, thus really paying attention to what is being said.

    If the element of comfort has been clearly expressed and is evident, the conversation can take on a sexual angle. However this should only be introduced if it is clearly evident that the other party is open to such a possibility




    Chapter 4:

    List of Horrible & Awful First-Date Conversation Topics



    There are some really nasty topics that should be diligently avoided, on a first date if the individual has any intention of securing a second date. These conversational topics are usually mood killers and contribute to a heightened feeling of being uncomfortable for at least one of the people on the date.


    The following are some examples of topic to avoid as they have been proved to be mood killers, horrible and awful:  




    What To Avoid


    • Taking about past relationships and partners is a real no, no. this can end up intimidating the other party and certainly making them feel very uncomfortable indeed. No one wants to be in a position where there is a possibility of being compared to someone else, especially if it is not in a favorable light.


    • Discussing sex is also something to be avoided on a first date as this will automatically put the other party on alert mode and effectively create an uncomfortable and defensive body and mind aura. Talking about sex on the first date will only show the person as having a one track mind and this is defiantly off putting for someone who is interested in building a relationship that is not just based on sex.


    • Talking about politics and religion is ok, if it can be done in a light and non judgmental way. In most cases this is rather impossible; therefore it would be safer to avoid these topics, lest the date turn into an argument. Most people have very strong feelings about both these topic and are often very set in their perceptions, and any attempt to change these perceptions or thoughts will be met with probable contempt and disdain.


    • Taking about bad habits is probably the most disgusting and off putting topic to pick for a discussion during a first date. It is even more disgusting if the individual taking about the habit is an actual practitioner of it.





    Chapter 5:

    How to Avoid Awkward Silences



    During the course of a conversation, there are bound to be instances where there is a lull in the flow of the conversation. This can usually be handled effectively or simply ignored, however if the lull occurs during a conversation on the first date or when new friends are getting together, the awkward silence can be deafening.


    The following are some tips on how to successfully overcome this awkward situation as pleasantly and smoothly as possible:




    Avoiding Silence



    Doing some research before the date or encounter, would definitely help to arm the individual with topics to inject into the conversation when there is any occurrence of awkward silences. Finding out a little about the other party’s likes and dislikes, would help in choosing the topic to discuss. Failing which, injecting any popular topic of the particular time, would also be something that should be considered when there is an awkward silence.


    Relaxing and allowing the mind to feel at easy will probably also be something that should be mastered, as when a person is relaxed, the confidence levels exude would effectively cover any awkward silence without seeming to make the individual uncomfortable and this will spill over into the general atmosphere around the date.


    Listening and paying attention to what the other party is saying will also give the individual clues of what topics to pick up on during the conversation, so that when there is a lull, these clues can help conjure up things to talk about. Also looking around with an observant eye may help the individual come up with something to comment about and thus effectively start a new topic of discussion. However this observation should not take too long as it might be perceived as boredom and thus be insulting or uncomfortable to the other party.



    Chapter 6:

    Keeping the Conversation Flowing



    This situation is very similar to that of the conversation having gaps of awkward silences which stresses both parties especially if they are new to each other and on a first meeting scenario. The problem here would be to keep an ongoing conversation going without the need to get flustered and panic when the individual runs out of things to add to the conversation.


    The following are some pointers that should be helpful if followed with careful consideration and attention:




    Keep It Going


    Most people are quite nervous to start with, when going on dates especially if these are first encounters. Going prepared is probably the best advice to give, as arming one’s self will a whole bunch of topic will give the individual a lot of back up conversation pieces to inject into the conversation when it seems to be failing or when it seems to be on the verge of stopping altogether.

    Being observant about the surroundings and happening around the room is also another way to find things to inject into a conversation when there is need to keep it flowing. However caution should be exercised as the conversation should not take on a tone that is accusing, condemning or condescending. This would paint the individual in a bad light and would not sit well with the other party.

    Remembering the basics about the conversation and then come up with further question and perhaps even funny interjections on the topic to all some life and continuity back into the conversation. Using open-ended questions will also help to extend the conversation and give the other party a chance to fill in the gap.

    Understanding and accepting that it is not completely the responsibility of the individual to keep the conversation going smoothly, will help keep the pressure off and bring about a relaxed feeling. Sometimes the other party may have something to say, and the ebb in the flow of the conversation, would be a good time to give them an opportunity to say something new. 


    Wrapping Up

     A good date is usually evident when both parties are having a good time. This is also true in any other scenario where the parties meeting for the first time, are completely at ease and comfortable with each other and the general mood of the evening is light and enjoyable. However, the trick to get to the plateau is in the conversation for the occasion, and how it flows throughout the encounter. 


    The following are some tips on how to keep the encounter interesting and increase the attraction levels to a comfortable and enjoyable plateau:


    Laughing is always a great way to relax and enjoy one’s self. Therefore without being ridiculous or totally silly, injecting some appropriately designed humor into the encounter will help everyone to relax and have a good time. This is definitely possible when there is a lot of laughter and smiles. When both parties are smiling and having a good time, the attractions are usually heightened to a pleasant enough level, where other options can be explored.


    Using psychology is also another platform to consider when it come to injecting elements that will ensure the encounter is interesting and the attraction is evident. When there is an opportunity, a compliment should be extended on a particular trait that is evident in the other party, and when this is effectively established, human nature is such that people normally try and up play further something that seems to be creating a positive impact. On this note the encounter can be kept interesting, because now the other party will be conscious of displaying this complimented trait, and on a subconscious level will be occupied in doing so effectively. This little twist of events will usually give the other party the feeling of being empowered, and this will usually work in the favor of the party initiating this exercise.  














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